August 19th, 2009
Make it one-way. Here’s another way to communicate your kissing druthers—and it can be a major turn-on in and of itself. “Tell her not to kiss back for a minute or two or three while you kiss her the way you like to kiss“. “Then reverse the roles.” The assertive role is exciting for the kisser, the holding back thrilling for the kissee. And in the bargain, you both get a living picture of the other’s idea of great kissing. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 29th, 2009
Sight, sound, smell, taste and touch are the five senses of the body through which we define our experiences of life. When our senses are heightened we feel alive and vibrant and connected from the depth of our being to the world beyond. The physical senses touch and effect every aspect of our mental, emotional and spiritual make up. The sight of a beautiful flower, the song of a bird, the perfume of a rose, the satisfaction of good food, and the caress of a lover can fill us with happiness, affect our thoughts positively, and uplift our spirit. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 17th, 2009
The essence of Cedarwood is a profoundly evocative oil when used to open up the emotions, helping lovers to enter into the spirit of the here and now in lovemaking, which can give their physical union a more spiritual dimension. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 17th, 2009
When added to a blend of aphrodisiac oils, bergamot’s uplifting, enticing and refreshing properties can greatly enhance the sensual mood of lovers. Whether it is used in an aromatic burner, or blended with oils to be used in a massage, its delightful lemon and floral aroma will do much to lift and balance a loved one’s spirit. Adding the component of happiness and contentment to a blend — bergamot is indeed a gift to any relationship. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 17th, 2009
Black pepper adds spice and vitality to a love life. With its warming, penetrating and strengthening properties, black pepper has earned itself a reputation as an aphrodisiac. Its amber oil extract is used to rekindle the flame of passion when a relationship has cooled either from lack of interest or familiarity. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 17th, 2009
The herb basil has a sweet, spicy aroma, with a hint of camphor, and has many associations with love, seduction and fertility. As an aphrodisiac essence, basil has gained a reputation for awakening the senses, and arousing the most basic sexual instincts — it was used by young Italian women to charm and bewitch the men of their desires. Read the rest of this entry »
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July 17th, 2009
Euphoric is the word most commonly associated with clary sage. A deeply sensual oil, reputed to have aphrodisiac qualities, clary sage has relaxing and calming properties that can decrease inhibitions. Read the rest of this entry »
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