Sex Sling

Most marriage education courses focus on communication skills, with some discussion of sex, commitment, and other aspects of relationships.

“I think all of this stuff about effective communication skills and learning how to validate each other can really hurt an adult sexual relationship,” “In fact, I think individuals should look to themselves, rather than their partner, for validation.”

Encouraging partners to play the role of best friend/cheerleader takes away much of the possibility for having good sex. “Your partner doesn’t have to agree with you or even make you feel better about yourself to create feelings of warmth and intimacy,” “Passion doesn’t come from validation; it comes from being able to stay centered in the face of your partner’s emotions.”

A Passionate Marriage retreat, which can last either four or nine days, uses sex as the vehicle through which to teach the skills of being a grown-up. “Sex is a strong motivator,” “You can learn a tremendous amount about sexual intimacy with your clothes on and your feet on the floor.”

When the two of you have an adult relationship, based on the integrity you each feel within yourselves, your sex life will explode. “Once you’re strong enough to be completely open and honest with your partner, you’ll be able to have eyes-open orgasms”.

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